When was the last time you and your other half shared a personal and satisfying moment together? Not just physical intimacy but emotional intimacy as well. Has these past few months, weeks or maybe years felt like your spouse is more of a room-mate than your other half? If this relates with you-- you and your wife lost the romance and passion in your relationship. For many guys, it isn't easy expressing how we feel to others, even our spouses.
But that's no excuse to not tell your wife how you are feeling. A successful relationship needs both people to express their feelings and thoughts in a good way. When was the last time you've told your wife that you love her? Better question yet, when was the last time your wife felt adored by you?
Every woman desires to feel loved by their partner. Has your wife ever asked you if you love her? Do you respond with a gruff answer laced with irritation? If this is the case it is not surprising she stopped asking those questions. Your spouse is craving for you love and warm feelings and you did not give it to her. It's truly no surprise your spouse is drifting apart from you.
Allow Yourself to Be Vulnerable
Many men think that being vulnerable is a weak feeling. In reality vulnerability is far from weakness. It takes guts and bravery to open your self up to people to risk feeling exposed. Show your wife your vulnerable side. Let her know that you know things have not been right between you guys and you would like to do all you can to fix your marriage.
Let her know your raw and honest feelings, even if it's to hard to get the words out. When your other half sees this soft side she's never seen, her heart will warm and soften.
What you can do to re-spark your stale marriage is to do something out of the ordinary. When your marriage began to crumble, after that, your marriage has been everything but fun, exciting and rejuvenating. Why don't you do something to get you and your wife out of this unsatisfying marriage rut you both are stuck. Bring the romance back in your marriage.
Wine and dine her. Take your spouse out for a romantic dinner, go on walks at night during a full moon. Take time to giggle with your wife. Spin her in circles and tickle her. I know all that may seem really a long way from where you guys are now, but cultivating your love daily, you both can get there. A marriage does not thrive when left neglected. It takes real work to make a garden grow, just like your marriage.
Begin to tell her how you feel on an everyday basis, whether your happy, miserable, upset or even frustrated. When you are open and truthful with your spouse, you are meeting her emotional needs. When her emotional needs are met, the love between you and your spouse will takes its natural course (right into the bedroom if your fortunate). Successful couples are people who feel successful on the inside.
But that's no excuse to not tell your wife how you are feeling. A successful relationship needs both people to express their feelings and thoughts in a good way. When was the last time you've told your wife that you love her? Better question yet, when was the last time your wife felt adored by you?
Every woman desires to feel loved by their partner. Has your wife ever asked you if you love her? Do you respond with a gruff answer laced with irritation? If this is the case it is not surprising she stopped asking those questions. Your spouse is craving for you love and warm feelings and you did not give it to her. It's truly no surprise your spouse is drifting apart from you.
Allow Yourself to Be Vulnerable
Many men think that being vulnerable is a weak feeling. In reality vulnerability is far from weakness. It takes guts and bravery to open your self up to people to risk feeling exposed. Show your wife your vulnerable side. Let her know that you know things have not been right between you guys and you would like to do all you can to fix your marriage.
Let her know your raw and honest feelings, even if it's to hard to get the words out. When your other half sees this soft side she's never seen, her heart will warm and soften.
What you can do to re-spark your stale marriage is to do something out of the ordinary. When your marriage began to crumble, after that, your marriage has been everything but fun, exciting and rejuvenating. Why don't you do something to get you and your wife out of this unsatisfying marriage rut you both are stuck. Bring the romance back in your marriage.
Wine and dine her. Take your spouse out for a romantic dinner, go on walks at night during a full moon. Take time to giggle with your wife. Spin her in circles and tickle her. I know all that may seem really a long way from where you guys are now, but cultivating your love daily, you both can get there. A marriage does not thrive when left neglected. It takes real work to make a garden grow, just like your marriage.
Begin to tell her how you feel on an everyday basis, whether your happy, miserable, upset or even frustrated. When you are open and truthful with your spouse, you are meeting her emotional needs. When her emotional needs are met, the love between you and your spouse will takes its natural course (right into the bedroom if your fortunate). Successful couples are people who feel successful on the inside.
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